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11 Ways Best Friend Relationships Have Changed From the \u201990s to Today<\/h1>\n\n\n\n

Almost everyone who grew up in the \u201990s had that one unforgettable best friend \u2014 the person you spent hours talking to on the phone, shared secrets with, complained about strict parents to, and tried to match outfits with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

While friendships today look different because of technology and changing lifestyles, the heart of a BFF relationship remains the same. You still share your biggest stories, laugh over inside jokes, and turn to each other when life gets difficult. The only difference is that now there are fewer landline calls and probably a lot more coffee and wine involved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A best friend has always been like the sibling you chose for yourself \u2014 the person who supported you through embarrassing moments, childhood drama, crushes, heartbreaks, and everything in between.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are some of the biggest ways BFF relationships have changed from the \u201990s to today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. The Way We Argue<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

In the \u201990s:<\/strong>
Friendship-ending drama could come from something as serious as your best friend forgetting to take care of your virtual pet and letting it disappear. At the time, it felt impossible to forgive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Today:<\/strong>
Arguments look a little different. Instead of dramatic confrontations, many adults express their frustration by ignoring messages, leaving subtle comments, or skipping a social media like.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. How We Make Up<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

In the \u201990s:<\/strong>
Apologies came in the form of handwritten notes passed around at school, filled with sad faces, heart-shaped dots over letters, and classic phrases like \u201cLYLAS\u201d (Love You Like A Sister).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Today:<\/strong>
Making peace might involve showing up with a favorite coffee, sending a funny selfie, or posting a picture together to prove everything is fine again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Friday Night Plans<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

In the \u201990s:<\/strong>
A perfect night meant going to the mall, shopping for accessories, buying snacks, and doing something slightly rebellious like sneaking into a movie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Today:<\/strong>
Many best friends would rather stay home with a streaming marathon, comfortable clothes, snacks, and a relaxing night in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Being Each Other\u2019s Matchmaker<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

In the \u201990s:<\/strong>
Your best friend helped you figure out your crush and created opportunities for you to \u201caccidentally\u201d run into them at school.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Today:<\/strong>
A BFF\u2019s mission might involve detective work online \u2014 searching social media, finding clues, and helping you track down someone with only a few details.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. The Meaning of a Squad<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

In the \u201990s:<\/strong>
Everyone wanted a group of friends big enough to recreate the Spice Girls and feel like a famous girl group.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Today:<\/strong>
Many people are happier with a smaller circle. One loyal best friend can be more than enough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. What We Gossip About<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

In the \u201990s:<\/strong>
Drama was about school rivalries, someone copying your style, or who got the best candy at lunch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Today:<\/strong>
Conversations might revolve around TV shows, celebrities, relationships, careers, and everything happening online.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Helping Each Other Through Heartbreak<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

In the \u201990s:<\/strong>
Your best friend showed up with comfort food, listened to your problems, and helped you survive seeing your ex at school.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Today:<\/strong>
Support might include self-care days, coffee dates, spa trips, a night out, and reminding you that you deserve better.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. How We Stay Connected<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

In the \u201990s:<\/strong>
You visited your friend\u2019s house, rang the doorbell, or nervously called their home phone and hoped their parents didn\u2019t answer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Today:<\/strong>
Communication is instant. Sometimes a conversation doesn\u2019t even need words \u2014 just a few perfectly chosen emojis can say everything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. The Trouble We Get Into<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

In the \u201990s:<\/strong>
Misbehavior was usually harmless childhood fun, like prank calls, silly jokes, or harmless school adventures.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Today:<\/strong>
Trouble might simply mean being late because you stopped for coffee together or got distracted during a long conversation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Defending Each Other<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

In the \u201990s:<\/strong>
If someone upset you, your first move was usually running home and telling your parents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Today:<\/strong>
Best friends support each other differently \u2014 sometimes by celebrating their friendship publicly and showing everyone they are having the time of their lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Showing Off Your Friendship<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

In the \u201990s:<\/strong>
Matching friendship bracelets were the ultimate symbol of being inseparable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Today:<\/strong>
Some friends choose matching tattoos, while others simply post funny pictures, jokes, or friendship updates online.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No matter how much technology and culture change, one thing remains the same: a true best friend is the person who stays by your side through every stage of life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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